Signs of a cheating spouse

PERSONAL APPEARANCE

• Change of hair style, color or cut
• Different wardrobe, younger style, change in underwear style- now wears thongs, bikini's, boxers, etc.
• (Women) - wearing more makeup than usual
• (Men) - coloring his gray hair or changing the style to something more up to date

CHANGE IN PERSONAL BEHAVIOR

• Starting a gym membership but not asking the spouse to join
• Hiding credit card and/or bank statements
• Dwindling bank accounts- money taken out of the ATM or unexplained missing money
• Hiding the cell phone
• Keeping the cell phone near them in bed
• Keeping the cell phone on silent/vibrate
• Not wanting to answer the phone around spouse or moving to another room to answer call
• Adding additional minutes or text messaging to cell plan
• Taking the cell phone everywhere, even to the bathroom
• Texting at all hours of the day, late night texting
• More affectionate/ less affectionate
• Bouts of unexplained anger
• Not wanting to spend time with the family
• Arriving home late from work, leaving early in the morning
• Never being reachable/ not answering the phone
• "Quick trip" becomes a long absence
• If confronted- the spouse/lover accuses them of being "paranoid", "stupid" or "crazy".

CHANGE IN SEXUAL BEHAVIOR
• Change in positions unknown to spouse/lover before
• Having condoms in wallet
• Decreased/increased interest in sex
• Newfound interest in porn
• Suggesting a "threesome" or other unusual sex act

Please keep in mind that these signs alone do not necessarily prove an affair to be true, these are merely some warning signs for you to compare. For more details on this, please contact our office